After dinner, i read a newspaper article...
It is about a 14 year old girl, lost her virgin to her own classmate and the guy'd friends... I don't know did they rape her or not... but it was written that those guys touched her breast, played with it, touched her private part and do any disgusting thigns that those guys can think of la....
When i read that, i was SO ****ing ANGRY!!!!
THATS NOT ALL YOU KNOW?
then she dno wad to do, she kept her mouth shut and never say a word about it... then the next day, her classmates told the incident to their friends and they think it is a very proud thing to do.. not only that... when somethg spread through so many ears and mouths, original things changed into rumours... they say she is willing to do it... then the guys' girlfriends say she seduce her bf... so many so many of hurtful words!! a victim now became a a convict? Luckily her friends stood by her and help her, give her support... However, no matter wad a friends cant undo the bad dreams, that girl have to accept the fact and try her best to overcome it...
I 'm proud of her... When she realise things are getting worse, she stood up and she told her mom everything... her mom went and see the pengetua, pengetua says pass the case to penolong kanan.... penolong kanan says this incident did not happen in school, so she cnt help..moreover, she ask her to transfer to malaka school, or penang, a school whr nobody knows her... next, she went and lodge a police report... police says wait until exam over first oni take action... now is already holiday... and the police are still sitting in their office makan pisang minum coffee! her mom brought her to hospital for check up... doctor ask her to stay in hospital for few days.. after few days, the doctor tells her that she forgot to call the ppl from pusat kebajikan... ok, the pusat kebajikan ppl came and ask few words then nvr bother about the case anymore... they just want to show that they did their jobs oni.. thats all... Everyone is pushing their responsibilities.. they do not want to help... the police, school authorities, they cant even help the girl??
Well, now i want to talk about the guys... Do they feel proud hurting a girl? dont they thnk that they are wrong? dont they think guys shud respect girls and of course girls respect guys too...
for the girls, please please please love yourself, if not no one will except for your family... dont trust your bf too much... when u are in love, maybe you will feel tat he will protect you, love you and care for you forever, but nothing is impossible, and dont be naive that he will be with you forever... thats no guarantee in this world.. maybe after some day he doesnt lyk you anymore, thign are not the same anymore... Dont destroy ur life for a guy who is nt ur husband... it is not worth AT ALL! Once a loving guy can turn into a demond... he may blckmail you with ur nude pics, tells everyone that you are a cheap girl or anything that they can think of! you can nvr imagine a guy who once loved you can do such things... So, be alert, dont trust guys too much... when he wants it, of course he will treat you nice, promise you this and that... girls, if he really loves you, he wont ask for it... he will realli protects you...
Therefore, girls, WE MUST BE STRONG and not fall for the evil trap!